The Answer is in the Excuse

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There's this book I like to refer to every time I date a guy. Its called, "He's Just Not THAT Into You."

It really saves a lot of time talking about whether or not someone likes you. Honestly, since I've read that book I don't think I've ever been "confused" with what a guy tells me because if he doesn't want to be with me, he won't. Period.

Now, obviously I'm not a man, so what do I REALLY know, right? I don't know, BUT I can feel and I feel that "reasons" are excuses. I don't like excuses, it doesn't make me feel too good and I would assume it wouldn't make you feel to good either. Enough said.

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