Me First, You Later
Too many broken hearts; Too many questions unanswered and too much self-doubt.
I think we have ALL asked ourselves, "why" and "what" - Pondering on how we did everything they wanted and yet we were still betrayed. Knowing we did all the right things (or at least we think we did) to only be done wrong.
However, maybe that is where the problem begins? Vaulnerable to love; Allowing yourself to be stripped of your identity to make someone else happy, will leave you weak in every way.
Although we are accused for being crazy and making false accusations, the heart never lies and God doesn't give us "signs" for nothing. No question nor tear can change what has already been written, so why ask "why?" Why ask "what?"
But, what if you put ALL that time and energy into your dreams, your hobbies? If you were that good to him/her, why can't you be that good to YOU? I mean, isn't it possible that you could love– YOU?
I choose to make ME my FOCUS; I believe that once I have achieved my goals, my independence, my hobbies and contentment with myself, everything else (including love) will fall into place and my life will be in harmony once again. Until then, tomorrow is mine. I own it and I'm going to be and do good for me.
I think we have ALL asked ourselves, "why" and "what" - Pondering on how we did everything they wanted and yet we were still betrayed. Knowing we did all the right things (or at least we think we did) to only be done wrong.
However, maybe that is where the problem begins? Vaulnerable to love; Allowing yourself to be stripped of your identity to make someone else happy, will leave you weak in every way.
Although we are accused for being crazy and making false accusations, the heart never lies and God doesn't give us "signs" for nothing. No question nor tear can change what has already been written, so why ask "why?" Why ask "what?"
But, what if you put ALL that time and energy into your dreams, your hobbies? If you were that good to him/her, why can't you be that good to YOU? I mean, isn't it possible that you could love– YOU?
I choose to make ME my FOCUS; I believe that once I have achieved my goals, my independence, my hobbies and contentment with myself, everything else (including love) will fall into place and my life will be in harmony once again. Until then, tomorrow is mine. I own it and I'm going to be and do good for me.